Dear readers,

I am incredibly excited to announce that Riding the Cancer Coaster: Survival Guide for Teens and Young Adults is finally here!  It has been an unbelievable journey getting to this point, and I am so excited!  This blog was my step towards my dream of writing a book, and it feels so unreal now that the book is actually complete!

For all of the teenagers and young adults out there going through treatment or living life as a survivor, I hope this book can provide a tool to navigate the twists and turns of this crazy cancer coaster life we lead.

If you would like, you can purchase the book HERE.  Please help me by posting a review of the book, since the more reviews it gets, the higher it sorts in Amazon's search listings!  You can also get to the book by clicking on "The Book" tab above!  

This past weekend proved to be an eventful one, so I am excited to share some updates here!  I not only managed to take the GRE (the exam required for applications to PhD programs), but I also SUBMITTED MY MANUSCRIPT TO AMAZON! 

What does this mean? It means that Amazon has approved my document as printable and they have allowed me to order a proof of the book, which is basically a test copy.  I received an email that the proof was shipped today, and it should arrive here within the coming week!  When it arrives, I will review it and see if it requires any last-minute edits.  If it does require corrections, I can correct the manuscript and complete the same submission/review process again.  If, however, it does not require any edits, I can make it available for purchase on amazon.com!

Therefore, the book will most definitely be available by November!  I will share the link and related information here as soon as it is all finalized!! So, keep checking back! Until then, have a good weekend!

This past week has been an awesomely eventful one.  I had the privilege to speak at an event for a student organization here at Duke, called Harmonies for Health.  My presentation was providing a patient’s perspective on the importance of empathy in provision of healthcare.  With so many pre-health students at Duke, it is definitely an important topic that does not receive enough attention.  For me, it was really special because I have not yet had the opportunity to speak at Duke, and it has been a while since my last patient ambassador speech!

I was also grateful that Harmonies for Health let me talk a little about my book plans!  Speaking of which, I am excited to say that the Riding the Cancer Coaster manuscript is complete and I am just putting the finishing touches on the cover design and other aesthetic things this week!  So, I am hoping to have the book available on Amazon by the start of November!

In the interim, I want to keep sharing awesome articles and information I find related to life as a cancer patient or survivor.  Today, I read an article in the Huffington Post called “Learning not to be a cancer-surviving control freak,” by two-time colon cancer survivor Danielle Ripley-Burgess. 

I loved the article both because it was incredibly moving and because I related to it on almost every level.  My favorite passage from it was the section on reality checkups:

I had this very thing happen to me a couple of weeks ago.  I was finishing up my book manuscript, I was starting my independent study on the efficacy of group support for adolescents with cancer, and I was feeling like I was off to a good start as I began my senior year.  I was working on my book and my independent study – which encompass my cause, as Ripley-Burgess refers to it – and they continue to help me heal my internal wounds from my own cancer experiences.  I had barred my doors and was full of positivity. 

Then, I heard my good friend had relapsed for the fourth time.  Having experienced my own relapse eight years ago, I was overcome once again by the prospect of having no control over my future.  As suddenly as I had picked up my reigns of control, they once again fell out of my hands.  I consistently find myself in this cycle of gain and loss of control.
 
I also ironically have trouble following my own advice because as I continued to read through Ripley-Burgess’s article I found a statement all too familiar to me and so similar to what I have written in this blog so many times.  Ripley-Burgess writes: “It’s not in my power to stop polyps from forming or my genes from mutating.  I can’t control what scares or realities will or will not come my way, now or in the future.  But I can control what’s around me that gets me through.”

So, as I have emphasized in the past, and as Ripley-Burgess so articulately and movingly points out in her article, surround yourself with people and things that will get you through and don’t focus so much on the element of control.  I thought I had learned that lesson, but I clearly have not and I am glad to have awesome survivors out there who can write articles like this one to share such reminders.  

​We may not be able to control how cancer impacts our present or our future, but we can ensure that we are surrounded by meaningful experiences and uplifting people.